How to Overcome Imposter Syndrome?

There are more CEOs and executives who go through imposter syndrome than you know. Unfortunately, as with every psychological pattern, this is not something people are ready to talk about or even acknowledge. Nonetheless, as we will see, imposter syndrome can be detrimental not only to your work but also to your well-being. This is why we will first see what it is and what the tell tale signs might be, then how to start fighting back and finally how to get rid of it in a more definitive manner.

Aurore

Product Manager – Coachyz

28 February, 2025
12:14

Deal with your imposter syndrome & build your confidence

How to identify imposter syndrome?

What is imposter syndrome and what are its symptoms?

Imposter (or impostor) syndrome is a psychological pattern where you doubt any of your accomplishments and you constantly fear of being exposed as a “fraud.” Even when you’re successful and have rational evidence of your achievements, you still feel inadequate and question your competencies.

In other words, this is a whole mindset in which you live with the anxiety that at any moment, others will ‘realize you’re not as capable as they once thought’. Because it is persistent, imposter syndrome can feel overwhelming. Anyone can be affected, regardless of their age, profession, or level of success.

A typical behavior for people with imposter syndrome is to downplay their successes: they attribute these to luck, timing or any external factor rather than their own skill or hard work. When you experience imposter syndrome, you might feel as though you’re wearing a mask, waiting for the moment when others will ‘figure out your scheme’.

Here are the most common indicators pointing toward an impostor syndrome:

Anxiety ;
doubt ;
self-sabotaging behaviors, such as procrastination or over-preparation.

Granted, humility is a virtue. However, to quote Aristotle, “Virtue is the golden mean between two extremes”, so misplaced humility can be the fuel for negative feelings as it becomes a consistent devaluation of your work. The thing is: when you always fall short of your own expectations, it’s not because you’re inadequate or incompetent, it’s probably because you’ve set standards that are impossible to meet.

Consequences of imposter syndrome in relationships and on professional performance

Most of the time, it leads to low self-esteem: you question your abilities even when you’ve received positive feedback and all the reassurance that you performed well. Yet, imposter syndrome still kicks in and you find yourself hard stuck in a cycle of negative thoughts, believing that your successes are nothing but flukes. Down the rabbit hole, you downplay your achievements and as a result, undervalue any significant contribution you’ve made to your tasks, your team or your organization.

Another department where you might suffer from your imposter syndrome is creativity and innovation. Indeed, fear of failure or criticism can stifle your ability to think outside the box:

you prefer to take more cautious approaches ;
you introduce less and less new ideas in your work ;
you might even become hesitant to share your valuable insights because you worry about your ideas not being good enough or about your coworkers responding negatively to any suggestion you might push.

Obviously, this is a highway to missed opportunities for professional growth and improvement.

Imposter syndrome can also affect leadership. As a manager or leader, you may feel the pressure to be perfect or have all the answers, making it difficult to delegate tasks or trust your team. However, when trust doesn’t go both ways, you might be creating an environment where you micromanage, which hinders not only your growth but also the growth of those you lead. Besides, leadership sometimes calls for bold decisions, which you just cannot take if you lack self-confidence.

As a whole, when suffering from an acute imposter syndrome, your mental health is compromised, be it in the short run or in the long run. As we already mentioned, prolonged feelings of inadequacy can lead to anxiety and stress, but if left unchecked for too long, you’re facing burnout, plain and simple, especially when coupled with professional challenges.

How do I get rid of my imposter syndrome?

Talk about your feelings, even at work

One of the most effective ways to combat imposter syndrome is to talk about your experiences with someone you trust, whether it’s a:

friend ;
mentor ;
manager ;
colleague ;
co-founder or a business partner, etc.

When you voice your doubts, more often than not, it helps break the cycle of isolation that imposter syndrome created within you. Many people who go through imposter syndrome feel like they’re the only ones who do, which makes them feel even more inadequate, and the cycle goes on and on.

But when you open up, you may find that others around you—like your coworkers, friends, managers, employees etc.—have had similar experiences and can help get you out of this self-deprecating system.

If you’re struggling with imposter syndrome as a manager or as a leader, consider trying CEO coaching, that will provide you with the best setting to talk about your experiences and build your confidence.

Chronicle and build on evidence of success

When you are going through impostor syndrome, it’s quite easy to get caught up in negative thoughts. That is why you absolutely need to keep reminding yourself of your achievements. A rather neat trick to help you do that is keeping a journal where you register each and every accomplishment. This journal will serve as hard evidence of your competence and all the effort you’ve put into your career: every time you receive positive feedback or reach a milestone, write it down. When those feelings of inadequacy start to creep in, look back on this journal to remind yourself of your worth.

If you’re not too keen on celebrating your own achievements, think of it as collecting evidence. You’re not boasting—you’re simply gathering objective data that proves you are capable and valuable.

Positive feedback from coworkers or supervisors can be yet another powerful tool in fending off the effects of imposter syndrome as such positive elements can be used to challenge the negative internal narrative that tells you you don’t belong in your role.

In other words, gathering evidence of your contributions allows you to shift from focusing solely on your perceived weaknesses to acknowledging your strengths. It’s also helpful to share these successes with your coworkers or business partners, as their external validation can provide additional reassurance that you’re on the right track.

Change your perspective on failure and criticism

We previously pointed out a common trait of those who experience imposter syndrome: a fear of failure.

Yet no one should be afraid of failure and criticism since they are integral parts of learning and growth, particularly in professional environments. Instead of thinking failure is only a confirmation of your inadequacy, try to see it as an opportunity to always get better at what you do. This mindset shift is the skeleton key to overcoming imposter syndrome.

For instance, when you are confronted with setbacks at work, remind yourself that they are not signs of incompetence. Every challenge is an opportunity to gain new insights and develop new skills. If you make a mistake or receive criticism, use it as constructive feedback rather than a reflection of your worth.

Changing your perspective is the best way to reduce the pressure to be perfect all the time. Focus on progress and self improvement rather than on perfection, and it will be so much easier for you to take on challenges and move forward with confidence.

Imposter syndrome: How to build trust that will endure?

Celebrate successes

Once you’ve taken your first steps on the path to vanquishing imposter syndrome, it’s important to make a habit of celebrating your successes. Indeed, you simply won’t manage to build long-term self-confidence without recognizing your achievements, no matter how small. Every single one of them hints at your being a capable, competent and deserving-of-your-wins individual.

Now, when you achieve a goal, whether personal or professional, take time to reflect on how you got there:

What steps did you take?
What skills did you use?
What solutions did you come up with?

When you go through this series of questions, you internalize the idea that your success is a result of your efforts, it is not just out of sheer luck or because someone did the heavy-lifting for you or because you had a lot of time or whatever reason you find to downplay your merits.

All in all, this process helps you conjure up a healthy sense of self-esteem, which is essential for combatting imposter syndrome in the long term: you regularly acknowledge your accomplishments so you begin to trust yourself and your abilities which in turn makes it harder for negative thoughts to take hold.

Mindfulness and self-compassion practices

Mindfulness is all about staying present in the moment and observing your thoughts without judgment. When negative thoughts arise—such as doubts about your abilities or feelings of inadequacy—you are then able to recognize them without letting them take control. By practicing mindfulness, you create space between your thoughts and your reactions. Ultimately, you thus end up responding to challenges with clarity and calmness.

Self-compassion, for its part, is about cutting yourself some slack. If you make a mistake, rather than beating yourself up, just tell yourself that everyone makes mistakes. You don’t have to be perfect to be valuable. Just as you would show compassion to a friend, do it to yourself.

Both practices not only help you manage stress and anxiety but also build a strong foundation of self-trust. Mindfulness and self-compassion are two effective ways to deal with challenges with resilience and confidence, further diminishing the grip imposter syndrome has on you.

Set realistic personal and professional goals

Without question, when you have specific objectives to work toward, it’s easier to measure your progress and recognize your successes.

First determine both your personal and professional short-term and long-term goals. Break these goals down into smaller, manageable steps. Each time you accomplish one of these steps, take note of it and celebrate the progress you’ve made. This achieves two things:

it keeps you motivated ;
it is an undeniable proof of your competence.

Setting clear goals can also help you shift your focus away from perfectionism. Instead of setting untenable standards for yourself and feeling disappointed when you don’t meet them, you keep your eyes on steady progress. Achievable milestones are a simple yet effective tool to build self-confidence and trust in your abilities over time.

To sum it all up, as imposter syndrome is a consistent pattern, getting rid of it can only be done gradually, by training yourself to change your perspective on your work, your competence and your worth. Record every success in a journal, gather positive feedback from other people and bit by bit, you’ll find yourself set up with everything you need so that you just have to look back and realize you do bring a valuable contribution to your company.

At CoachYZ, we know that every leader, every manager not only has their own strength but also possesses a hidden potential for growth and self improvement. You are a competent decision-maker but are you interested in becoming the best possible version of yourself? If so, embark on your coaching journey with us!

Aurore

Product Manager – Coachyz

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FAQ

What is the root cause of imposter syndrome?

The root cause of imposter syndrome often stems from internalized beliefs about competence and worth. Perfectionism, family dynamics or societal pressures are all factors which can contribute to feelings of inadequacy regardless of facts pointing toward the opposite. You may set extremely high standards for yourself, as a result you don’t often meet them and end up feeling like a fraud. Pre-existing low self-esteem, negative thoughts and professional challenges tend to amplify these feelings.

What are the three c’s of imposter syndrome?

The three C’s of imposter syndrome are competence, confidence, and comparison. People struggling with imposter syndrome often doubt their own competence, despite evidence of their abilities. This lack of confidence leads to feelings of inadequacy. Lastly, they tend to compare themselves to others, believing they fall short, which further reinforces the belief that they are not good enough, even if they are succeeding.

Will imposter syndrome go away?

Imposter syndrome will not go away on its own, but with practice and self-awareness, it can be managed. Overcoming imposter syndrome involves recognizing and challenging negative thoughts, seeking support and celebrating successes. It requires continuous effort, including mindfulness and self-compassion practices, to combat self-doubt. While it may reappear in new situations, building self-confidence can significantly reduce its impact over time.